Understanding and learning about how we belong touches all of us at some vibration. This Cancer New Moon allows us to explore this at new depths as events or situations arrive for us to question our belonging, as most of us know moments where we have been surrounded by others yet still felt so alone. We've all felt aloneness, and we know the emotions we carry whenever aloneness surrounds us. There are feelings of being an outsider, being different from others, and not forgetting our experiences of abandonment by others that can leave us frightened and scared. These feelings push us away from the life direction that we would choose for ourselves and we end up choosing our moments to protect our belonging rather than seeking out genuine connections, for to find our genuine belonging involves pushing past those feelings and being seen for who we really are. We can all do belonging differently, as each of our lessons arrive, we get the opportunity to take more responsibility for our belonging. We can begin to understand what memories influence our actions towards belonging, what thoughts do we hold on to and what emotions arrive when things don't go our way towards belonging. Most of us have concerns that are loud enough to touch our anxieties... we try to control anything that fills us with anxiety as they are habits and behaviours that we have used in other times. This keeps us in stagnation rather than taking a deep breath and having acceptance for where we are and to learn differently. We all want to belong and connect to others, whether it be a loving family, a circle of like-minded friends, a caring neighbourhood or a desire to be part of a united world, however most of us have our memories with belonging that influence our action towards connecting. When we live from mind's ways we don't recognise how to fix our belonging, by wanting others to accept us, and as we search for our tribe and like minded groups, we believe if we find our group and are accepted, life will become more liveable, but what we aren't noticing is how we want others to fix our neediness to fitting in. We also don't recognise how we change our behaviours to fit in within our family, our workplace or our social groups as we all have our habits of controlling our belonging. Some of us over reach and try to be everything to everybody, others try to be perfect in all ways to others, some require others to adore them, demanding others see them as special so that they feel safe and secure. We follow our habits because we are too scared to trust and believe again in taking charge of our own belonging. When we acknowledge that we are a soul travelling from one lifetime to the next learning our lessons, and that belonging would have always been part of our lessons with deep feelings of failure, then we can begin to understand that we have habits and behaviours from these lifetimes that follow us. A common habit is to want others to behave in a certain way... and when they don't behave how we want them to, it leaves us with all of our emotions in wanting to control the situation. When we demand situations to go away, it can take us on a spiral of mood changes, leading us to fall into our habit of unfairness and injustice, and the loudness of these feelings soaks up all our energies with our continuous flow of thoughts, leaving no room to question how we tackle our lessons towards belonging, leaving no room to learn and understand how we belong. It is our responsibility and it it is only us who can create the change. Where do we begin? We begin by having acceptance when belonging arrives, by holding our relaxation and moving from present moment so that we can see all the layers that make up our belonging. It is here so that we can understand our behaviours and acknowledge what emotions we bring to our belonging. What thoughts do you carry towards your belonging? Learning to understand what energies make up your belonging allows you to create change. Change is where you can choose to stop your thoughts by remaining present and loosen the grip of emotions and memories, for when you belong to your world with a genuineness, life has a beauty to it and an easiness to it where you can enjoy others and enjoy your contributing. Become aware of the events and situations that arrive with this moon. It is such a special moon for change and growth as this moon is connected to your soul's journey. Being a new moon, allow your desires and wishes to spark your movement and change, whether it's a moment to strengthen your feminine vibration by acknowledging you are enough, you have always been enough, or allow space to honour and understand the soul of who you are. When we strengthen our feminine vibration, we raise our soul vibration which allows us to reach that moment to take more responsibility for our belonging and connecting to our world with ease and graciousness. Your lessons are there to create balance so you can move closer to lifting the brightness of your soul and your soul's knowing, and what a great place to be... to experience where you are out in front meeting your lessons, watching your emotions, watching your thoughts, allowing space for your change, and wherever you are within your journey, all is change, all is reaching for a new vision. I wish you well. Read the previous post about Soul's Vibration in relation to this Cancer New Moon.
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Cancer is the natal home of the Moon itself, so this Cancer New Moon gives us room to revisit and explore where we are within our soul's journey. Allow the moon's energies to waft around you and offer encouragement to find moments to question or acknowledge your soul's vibration. We will all reach a lifetime where we feel we can go no further ignoring the soul of who we are, finding space to learn and discover more of soul's language with the desire to grasp soul's energy with more clarity. In doing so, we allow ourselves to surrender mind's hold on us. It is challenging to lift our soul's vibration while mind is in charge of our days as mind and soul move from different ways. Soul chooses to move from living a life from a continuous flow of relaxation, no matter what energies surround us, allowing greater awareness and acceptance for what we experience within all the layers that make up our events and situations. There is a gentleness and calmness in this movement which allows us to see every intricate detail of the layers that make up our doings, and as we watch, we can acknowledge where we want to do differently, where we want to see change within us. It is such a true saying, "we are all here to grow, to evolve" ... this is what all souls desire and have been striving to do at some vibration each lifetime, and so we continue where we left off... When our soul reaches a vibration where life is lived from a truthful feeling of celebrating all parts of our life, where we enjoy a flow of peacefulness wherever we are, it allows the soul to grow to a vibration that it has been desiring to reach for so many lifetimes. It is what our journey has been about, to have enough growth to allow the space where all our days are lived from a continuous flow of learning of higher vibrational energies with gratitude. Energies such as:
Perhaps within your soul's journey you are just beginning to take more care of yourself by drinking more water and eating healthier foods, choosing to leave behind sugars and yeast as they are known to feed our emotions, keeping us in our negative energies even if we wish them not to be there. Or maybe you are learning the difference between mind and soul's vibration, leading you to choose present moment and to keep choosing it within your day. Or you might be allowing yourself to be more genuine towards learning and extending relaxation within your day. As you watch your relaxation expand, see your reflection of calmness and gentleness become more common as stress and anxiety move further away. Or maybe you have reached that moment of understanding where information and knowledge are there to be turned into action and doings, where your knowledge is not just known but it is lived. Wherever you are within your soul's journey, this Cancer moon gives us the opportunity to watch what events or situations arrive. Within her space, we have the chance to learn and explore what we can change and do differently, allowing us to follow our soul's wishes and see our soul's desires come to fruition. And as the direct moment arrives, know as the New Moon, we can watch ourselves say and feel our wishes, our desires, giving them space to be felt and heard to a new vibration within our body, allowing change to happen within our days to follow. Enjoy this moon and I wish you well. Read the previous post about feminine energies in relation to this Cancer New Moon.
Welcome to Cancer New Moon and what a moon she is, giving us the opportunity to explore how our feminine energies are acted out within our every day and the habits and memories from other times that follow us. Cancer is the natal home of the Moon itself, and this gives us room to explore where we are within our soul's journey - for we are a soul and we pick up where we left off in other times, continuing our journey of growth. Cancer and the Moon live within the fourth house of the astrological chart, and it is here that we get to observe and understand how our feminine energies and our soul's vibration move and belong within our family. We all carry feminine energies within us and with this moon, males are supported to understand and develop their female attributes and females can strengthen theirs. There are a few layers to this moon, so this blog post will focus on the feminine energies and I will post about the soul and family aspects over the next few days. If we wish to strengthen our feminine vibration, we must first acknowledge what vibrations we already hold. Within the female energies you will find vibrations of intuition, nurturing, love, passion and inspiration. We can begin by observing what foundation we have already created to make up our feminine energies - what memories do we keep acting out, what habits continue to appear without us even knowing? It can be challenging to trust strengthening our feminine vibration if we haven't first acknowledged what vibrations are already there. So we start to watch how our feminine energies are acted out within our day by noticing what emotions and thoughts we commonly bring to events and situations.
Once we understand the foundation, we can begin to sort out what we would choose for ourselves... we begin to say what vibrations we wish for ourselves, allowing us to create change to old worn out memories and habits that we have outgrown. We start developing our feminine energies by lifting and expanding them to a higher vibration and this may take the form of:
I wish you well.
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